We are getting a divorce,
what do we have to take into account and who can we turn to?

Perhaps the most important choice in a divorce is whether the divorcing partners will hire a single consultant/divorce counsellor together, or whether they will each hire their own attorney. I recommend that you first look at whether hiring a consultant together is negotiable. I prefer to work for both partners, because the coordination is much more direct and faster. I can also look for tailor-made solutions that will help both partners. This ensures that there is a better basis for complying with the agreements after the divorce has been finalised. Please feel free to contact me for an introductory meeting.

My partner wants a divorce,
what can I do and what are my rights?

When faced with your partner’s decision to divorce, you may feel like you no longer have a choice. What is the right strategy for you? How can you prepare for the divorce process and what are things you should not do? I would like to help you through this first difficult period. In this situation, I also suggest that you explore whether your partner would be open to hiring one consultant/counsellor together. During a first telephone conversation, I would be happy to discuss what I can do for you, with or without your partner.

We already have a mediator,
but I want to know more.

Sometimes, during the mediation process, one of the partners needs more information or a second opinion. You are free to seek additional advice. I am happy to fulfil that role, to make additional calculations and to provide information and tips for follow-up meetings. You may inform your partner and the mediator about my role, but it is not mandatory. My ultimate goal is to help the mediation process forward so that clarity can be achieved.