Financial relationship advice
Good appointments give rest
A relationship isn't just about feeling. Financial choices also play an important role. Who pays what costs? What is yours together and what remains private? And what happens to a property, enterprise or property when your situation changes?
In practice, it is not always easy for partners to have a good talk about money. Ideas can run apart and around the subject of money sometimes play strong beliefs and emotions.
As a mediator, I'm going to talk to you about what everyone thinks is important. I ask you how you look at the responsibilities around income, costs and care tasks. Furthermore, it is important to investigate whether each attaches to own funds or whether you prefer to build the assets together during the relationship.
By thinking about this together in time, you avoid confusion and possible tensions. I am helping you to make financial matters transparent, express wishes and find agreements that suit you both.
When can financial relationship advice help?
You're moving in together
How do you distribute the fixed charges and how do you capture what everyone invests in buying a property? I help you discuss financial choices and make clear agreements.
You're getting married
Does a standard community of goods not fit for your marriage/registered partnership? I'd like to co-operate on customized prenup.
Your prenup is > 10 year old
Chances are something has changed in your financial situation. I'll help you revisit existing appointments.
You have a company or private property
Business, joint and personal interests can be mixed up. Together we investigate which risk derivatives require attention and which arrangements fit the situation.
Clarity at the start and during your relationship
It is precisely at the start of a relationship, when living together or when making important changes that it is wise to discuss financial choices together.
Maybe after a previous relationship, you're going to live together again, register a partnership or marry. You may also be wondering during your relationship whether the agreements on paper still correspond to your current situation and wishes.
I'd be happy to enter into the conversation with you so that the appointments on paper match what you think is important. Just from caring for each other and for the future.
