Who I Help
We’re getting divorced
What should we consider, and who can help us?
Perhaps the most important decision when getting divorced is whether you and your partner work with one adviser or divorce mediator together, or each appoint your own lawyer. I recommend first exploring whether you could agree to work with a single adviser.
I enjoy working as a mediator for both partners because communication is more direct and decisions can be made more quickly. I can also help find tailored solutions that work for both of you. This creates a stronger shared commitment to honouring your agreements after the divorce.
Please feel free to contact me to arrange an introductory conversation.
We’re already working with a mediator
But I’d like more information
Sometimes, during mediation, one partner feels the need for more information or a second opinion. You are free to seek additional advice independently.
I’m happy to provide that support by preparing additional calculations and offering information and practical suggestions for your next discussions. You may tell your partner and the mediator about my involvement, but you are not obliged to do so.
My ultimate aim is to help the mediation process move forward and bring greater clarity.
My partner wants a divorce
What can I still do, and what are my rights?
When your partner tells you they want a divorce, you may feel as though you no longer have a choice. What is the best way forward for you? How can you prepare for the divorce process, and what should you avoid doing?
I’d be glad to support you through this difficult initial period. Even in this situation, I recommend exploring whether your partner would be open to working with one adviser or mediator together. During an initial phone call, we can discuss how I can help you, whether or not your partner is involved.